Homesickness and My Cure For It


As you probably know by now, I’m Swedish. I left my home country in June 2012 and I haven’t been able to go home since then. I have had terrible homesickness off and on since the summer. I most of all miss my brothers and my parents. They are such important people in my life and sometimes it hurts physically being apart from them. I know, I took the decision to move here myself but that doesn’t mean I don’t miss the reality I had back home. I was 1 hour flight away from my family and I had friends all around me in town (Stockholm). That has drastically changed and as I’m loving it here in Hawaii I sure wish I could just move Sweden (and my other home country Norway) just a little bit closer to be able to see my loved ones more often.

So how do I cope with my homesickness?

1. I use the apps Viber and Skype to text and talk to my family.

2. I have photos of my loved ones nearby and it always make me happy (and sometimes more homesick, I admit) to see them.

3. I read Swedish online magazines.

4. I listen to a lot of Swedish/Norwegian music. Not necessarily always songs with Swedish lyrics but that sure makes me feel good. I sing along (not sure my husband enjoys this, but I do it anyways) loud with the Swedish lyrics!

5. I talk to myself and the cat in Swedish.

6. I eat whatever Swedish/Norwegian stuff I can get a hold of.

7. I read books in Swedish. Mom sent some books with my husband for me to have here in Hawaii and read whenever I felt the urge to get some Swedish reading in.

treats from home

Speaking of #6 – there are some specific Swedish/Norwegian eatable things I try to get a hold of as often as possible or miss like crazy, here goes:

Lingonberries in any shape or form – straight up berries, jam, cookies, cakes. Bring it on. Lingonberries have been one of my favorite berries since I was a teeny little kid. I’m dreaming of going to visit my grandparents in their mountain cabin in Norway and go out in the forest to pick those delicious red berries and make jam out of them.

Brunost (“brown cheese” in Norwegian), or Ski Queen as it’s called when sold at Safeway here in the US. This is something I’ve never had in other places than at my grandparents. But at the other hand, when spending time at their place I eat… Let’s say A LOT of it. It is one of those things which my husband have been working on acquiring a taste for.. Very different, but OH so tasty in my opinion.

Köttbullar, Swedish meatballs. It might not be one of my favorite foods when in Sweden, but my husband makes some awesome meatballs, and they remind me of home in a good way. They (and the gravy) should of course include some lingonberries.

Swedish bulk candy. Oh dear, does Sweden know how to make candy. There’s sooo many amazing sorts of candy back home and I especially miss the sour candy and the licorice (Djungelvrål…). Check out the store Sockerbit in NYC or online and have a look at some awesome (and maybe not super healthy) treats.

Pannkaka, the thin Swedish style pancake. Every time I make these I feel like I’m at home with my family having dad amazing pancakes.. Eat them with some whipped cream and jam or fresh berries and you’re in heaven.

Kladdkaka, as I mentioned in an earlier post kladdkaka is one of my favorite cakes and it is SO easy to whip together! I normally eat it with whipped cream or just as it is. Greatness in the shape of a chocolate cake!

The list could be looong, but these are some of my top cravings or treatments to my homesickness. The though was that I’d get to go back home in March but as it is now it’s not going to work out because of our job and money situation. Bummer! But I’ll get there later this year, I HAVE to.

8 thoughts on “Homesickness and My Cure For It

  1. Mmm Djungelvrål…I would miss them as well:)

    • When I was backpacking to India and Thailand before I moved here, I made sure to pack at least one bag of Djungelvrål. Every time. I love them! Can you get them in stores in Denmark? :)

      • Yes, we have Djungelvrål. I love them! When I spent 6 months in Spain I also had all friends who visited me bring Piratos from Haribo. I know they are German, but I bet they are more popular in Denmark than Germany;)

  2. Bulk candy! Yum that sounds amazing :) I’m sorry you are homesick. I can’t imagine what it must feel like to live so far away from your family. Be blessed in your Hawaiian surroundings though. You are in a state that most Americans only dream of visiting :)

    • The candy back home really is dangerously tasty! When my husband came to Sweden to visit me the first time he’d come back from the store with candy ALL THE TIME. He couldn’t resist it. And now I totally understand why – the candy here just doesn’t even come close (even though I have some favorites here too.. Cinnamon Bears are one of them!).. I don’t think I have to mention that he gained some weight in Sweden?! ;)
      Thank you, you are right! I feel blessed being where I am. If I left Sweden for a cold rainy/snowy winter I’d be wondering why I decided to move.. Hawaii is gorgeous and I love living here :) Let me know if you are coming this way and I’ll hook you up with a ride/a guest room or a running friend – whatever you might need!

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  4. Although I grew up here in Canada I miss a lot of things from my parents home countries. My Mom grew up in Ireland and I would love to have fresh fish and chips wrapped up in newspaper. Plus they have amazing rock candy & water taffy. My Dad was Danish (from Copenhagen) and my brother still lives there. There are countless foods I miss from Denmark! Way too many to list, but their cheeses are at the top of the list!
    Thanks for sharing all the things you love and miss from home. Take a couple of empty suitcases with you when you go!

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